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March 2nd
Flesh Theater
Flamingo East Club
219 2nd Avenue at 13th Street
9pm - 4am
Price: $5 Ladies, TV and crossdressers (free before midnight),
$10, $5 with pass/printout or in fetish dress
www.fleshtheater.com
Flesh Theater is a fetish S&M lounge
where kinksters of all ages, Mixed Bi, gay, straight of all sizes and shapes
can come and be who or what ever it is that they want to be. Hosted by
Master Steelow, house performers include Lady Malice, Goddess Haden,
Desdemonia, Mistress Sophia, Slave Bruce, Lady Cindel, Lady Claudia.
Submit
Studio 253
253 East Houston between Avenue A & B
9pm - 2am
Price: $15
www.submitparty.com
Submit is a safe sex and play party produced by the delightfully twisted Evilena and Red, who are extremely experienced players. They have both topped, bottomed and taught classes in assorted BDSM activities. Submit has been in existence for almost three years now. "We wanted to create a space that was open to novices and experienced players alike, and we encourage the experienced players to interact with novices and help them along. If someone wanted to come, just make out with their girlfriend and watch other people, we wanted that to be okay and comfortable, too," says Red. You must be a woman or trans (male to female or female to male) to be admitted.
Starshine Burlesque
RiFiFi
332 East 11th Street (at 1st Avenue)
10pm
Price: $5 & one drink minimum
www.starshineburlesque.com
The cutting edge in burlesque takes it off every Thursday night at RiFiFi. Enjoy a cocktail before the show as go-go sensations bump and grind to the irresistible sounds of the Meat Mistress' turntables. On stage, in the Backroom Starshine turns up the heat with a variety show of eye-popping striptease, magic, acrobatics, and vaudevillian antics. A different show happens every week with comedy, music, dance and good old fashioned burly-Q.
March 4th
Fetish Warehouse
117 25th Street, Brooklyn
10pm - 4am
Price: $35 Single men, $30 Couples, $15 Dressed TV, Free to women
www.fetishwarehouseny.com
BDSM, S&M, D&B, CBT, bondage, spanking, caning, whips, chains, ropes, adult role playing, foot fetishes, smoking fetishes, fetishes of all types, cross dressing, leather, paddles, TV's, leather, clamps, flogging, paddles, cuffs, violet wands, tens units, masters, slaves, dommes, doms, electric play, TV's, gay, lesbians, bi-sexuality, exhibitionism, voyeurism, suspension and more.....do these things spark your interest? Then welcome home! Renowned S&M, fetish fantasy club operator, Lenny Waller, has taken an empty 5,000 sq. ft. warehouse and transformed it into an exciting new adult fetish fantasy haven! Catering to patrons from the curious, the novice, to the experienced. Every Friday and Saturday night.
Foreplay Unscripted
The PIT (Peoples Improv Theater)
154 West 29th Street
11pm
Price: $8
www.foreplayunscripted.com
This erotically charged comedy seduces audiences with improvisation inspired by audience suggestions. Complimentary wine and desserts served.
March 5th
OTK Spanking Party
Paddles
250 West 26th Street
7pm - 10pm
Price: 35 for men, $5 for women
www.paddlesnyc.com
OTK Spanking Party happens the first Saturday of every month and is for spankers only. Paddles is a 5000 square foot, multi-level, state-of-the-art location with 30 pieces of new equipment and 20 years of safe, clean S&M fun. Spanking, paddling, hairbrushes, rulers, wooden spoons, straps, and canes welcome. Please check whips, chains, and gags at the door until 10pm. Doors open at 7pm.
March 6th
Baroness' Fetish Retinue
Alphabet Lounge
104 Avenue C at 7th Street
8pm doors, 10pm performances
Price: $5 in fetish, $15 in black, $20 in street wear
www.baroness.com
The first Sunday of every month the Fetish Retinue has been New York's favorite low-key latex event for almost two years, attracting an intimate selection of kinksters eager for an opportunity to socialize without ear-splitting music or annoying wankers. Imagine a highly polished cocktail party with an interesting mix of old and new friends! Girls in gas masks, androgyns in be-plumed powdered wigs and a crowd in a kaleidoscope of colored latex frolicking at Capitale, a grand new nightspot in a gorgeous old bank.
March 10th
Bi Girls Soho Loft Party
Price: $15 - $30
www.premiumevents.com
Premium Events Bi Girls Soho Loft Party is for bisexual females seeking to meet and play with other bisexual females. No couples or single males are allowed at this private bi girls only party. Premium Events is holding this bi girls party at a spectacular 4,500 s.f residential loft in fashionable Soho. The Soho Loft has two huge living rooms, 4 oversized open bedrooms, 5 bathrooms, an eat-in kitchen and bar, a 15 foot full screen TV, two high tech sound systems, along with eloquent furnishings, oriental rugs and original artwork. They will serve a sumptuous buffet, and have a bar for beverages and BYOB. Enjoy complimentary drinks and exotic deserts. Please see their website for membership requirements and specific prices.
March 11th
Vice Versa Party
Club - Rare 416 West 14th Street (between Washington & 9th Ave)
9pm - 4am
Price: Free before11pm, $10 after 11pm
www.biboysandgirls.com
Vice Versa Party - "Where all the bi boys and girls come out to play." Brought to you by BiBoysandGirls.com, owners and moderators of over 15 Tri-state bisexual friendly Yahoo E-Groups with over 10,000 online members! They welcome all those who are bi and bi-friendly to come on out for their Second Meet and Greet. Come out and support this specialty theme night and you may see it become a weekly on-going party! Bring yourself, tell your friends and feel free to pass this info on!All are welcome!! Couples, singles, gay, lesbian, bi-curious or just party-goers!! Pre-pay tickets available through ticketweb.com.
Fandango
Albany Power Exchange (APEX)
Albany, RSVP for location
7pm - 10pm
Price: Free for APEX members, $5 for all others
www.albanypowerexchange.com
The Fandango is held on the 2nd Friday of every month. It’s is a private fetish wear optional social event and you can wear anything you want as long as long as women's nipples and everyone's groins are covered. Dress as sexy or crazy or fetish as you want, or just come in your favorite jeans. We request that everyone be covered up until they are inside. Have some favorite scene or dance music? Bring it along. The Fandango is free for APeX Membership cardholders and $5 for all others. If you are not a member, you need to be sponsored by a member to attend.
March 12th
Manhattan Meatpackers
Studio 253
253 East Houston between Avenue A & B
Price: $20 donation
Door 10pm - 4am, party until 6am
www.worldofwakefield.com
Meatpackers is “a safe sex playground" for men, with one per month in Manhattan and another monthly in Brooklyn. CruisingforSex.com has called Meatpackers "perhaps the most satisfying sexual venue in all NYC." So he's juggling two all-male sex parties and another with mixed company. That's a lot of lube! You must say you’re there "for the meatpacker party," at the door. After paying the $20 donation and showing ID you’re then required to display your unit at the door. Hello, meatpackers! There’s a mandatory clothes check for $2 inside.
March 13th
Axis New York
117 25th Street, Brooklyn
Price: $20
Door open 5pm – 8pm, party continues til ??
www.axis-newyork.com
Axis New York is the hottest men's club in NYC. Located in Park Slope Brooklyn, only minutes from Manhattan. Catering to gay, bi-sexual, bi-curious men! AXIS New York offers a place for Daddy's 'n Son's, Bear's 'n Cubs, Hirsute Pursuit, leather men, CbT, fetishes, role playing, Brawlers, wrestling, s & m and bondage enthusiasts to play.
March 19th
Saturday Play Parties
The Venom Club
308 Rt. 109, East Farmingdale
www.thevenomclub.com
Axis New York is the hottest men's club in NYC. Located in Park Slope Brooklyn, only minutes from Manhattan. Catering to gay, bi-sexual, bi-curious men! AXIS New York offers a place for Daddies 'n Sons, Bears 'n Cubs, Hirsute Pursuit, leather men, CbT, fetishes, role playing, Brawlers, wrestling, S&M and bondage enthusiasts to play.
Slaves
Anthology Film Archives
32 Second Avenue at Second Street
Midnight
Price: $8, $6 students, $5 AFA members
slaves.eroto.com
The film Slaves concerns the bizarre, dysfunctional and perverse lifestyle of artist R.C. Horsch and seven women who seek out and voluntarily remain in an ostensibly abusive emotional and sexual relationship. It takes place in a distant corner of the sad-masochistic world that exists far beyond mere fetishes and role-playing. In this world, sex is extreme, often violent, and people sometimes die. Slaves is the winner of the CineKink Festival Best Feature and Audience Choice Awards. It shows every Saturday at midnight.
March 26th
Le Scandal
Cutting Room
19 W. 24th Street
Midnight, $15
212 868-4444
www.lescandal.com
New York's Le Scandal offers a weekly ride through cabaret underground, mixing neo-Burlesque with Vaudeville and eroticism. Unique stripteases, sideshow performances and exotic art presentations are exhibited by a torch-singing fan dancer from New Orleans, a Sudanese sword swallower, a belly dancer from the East, trapeze actors, fire dancers and more.
Suite Surrender
The Nutcracker Suite
12 East 33rd Street (9th Floor)
7pm - Midnight
Price: $50 men / $5 women, reservations required
www.nutsuite.com
The Nutcracker Suite is considered to be one of the top dungeons in the world and has an excellent reputation. The new location is now situated in the heart of midtown Manhattan. All of the dungeons have been carefully redesigned with function and elegance as a key factor. There is full suspension in every room and an assortment of all kinds of tables, bondage chairs and racks. All fantasies and fetishes are bound to be fulfilled at the Nutcracker Suite. With some of the most beautiful and skilled Mistresses in the city, you're certain to have a good time. Novices as well as the connoisseur are encouraged to explore their fantasies. The second and last Saturday of the month.
SPAM
210 5th Avenue, Park Slope, Brooklyn
10pm - 5am
Price: Women & Trans $5; Men $20
Hotline: 718 789-4053
spam_party-owner@yahoogroups.com
www.lesbiansexmafia.org
Michael of Meatpackers and Red of Submit bring you, SPAM! It's a hedonistic haven for playful gay boys and frisky dykes who don't mind getting down and dirty in the company of the opposite sex - as long as they're gay too! The party kicks it in a Brooklyn loft, just like all the other painfully hip nightlife going on these days in the city that never sleeps. But there's definitely more going on at SPAM than posing and preening. This event's all about action. Come together as dykes, gay men, trannies and queers in your underwear. Mandatory clothing check down to your drawers. The 4th Saturday of every month.
March 28th
The 16th Annual GLAAD Media Awards New York
New York Marriott Marquis, 1535 Broadway
5:30pm – 10:30pm
Tickets: $350 - $1500
www.glaad.org
Honoring outstanding contributions in the media, The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) is dedicated to promoting and ensuring fair, accurate and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation.
March 30th
Play Party
Rochester Kink Society
Membership required for location
8pm - 2am
www.rks-society.com
The Rochester Kink Society play-parties are "members-only" events. Guests must be sponsored by a current RKS member in good standing. provide BDSM and kink-oriented persons with a safe space for learning, practicing, and discussing BDSM and related kink. They are dedicated to openness, tolerance, safety, and education. We do not discriminate by gender or sexual orientation. We want to create an environment in which anyone can safely learn, practice, or discuss BDSM and related kink.
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