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Frequently Asked Questions
What is the dress code?
No sneakers,
jeans, t-shirts, baseball caps, shorts, etc. Dress comfortably and
sexy.
There is a place to change for those who wish to wear
something more exotic.
Fetish wear is
perfectly acceptable ... fantasies encouraged.
What
is the age range?
Roughly, the age range is 25-50, with
a predominance within the
30-45 age group.
Age is unimportant in our group: open-mindedness, fun and
honesty play more
important roles.
What
time should we arrive by?
Doors open at 9:30 PM. You may arrive anytime you desire. Doors close at
12:30AM
for admissions.
What
are your hours of operation?
From 9:30 PM until 2:00 AM on selected party nights.
Is there any charge for this party ?
Yes. There is a charge to cover our expenses which is detailed when you
register.
How
do we get to come to one of your parties?
Register online and pay at the door. Cash only
is accepted at the door.
Do I need to bring anything to the party to be admitted?
No. You need only bring yourselves and a healthy attitude about having
fun. You
may
need to prove how old you are if there are any doubts.
Can I bring alcohol ?
No, our parties are usually held at a commercial establishment which always
has a
bar. We just ask that you drink responsibly.
Where
are you located?
We are located in Northern New Jersey. We provide the exact address
to those
who have
confirmed reservations.
Do I have to DO anything if I come ?
NO. You don't. While we expect that most people are coming with the intent
of finding compatible playmates and enjoying their time socializing. If you are
new and unsure and
want to come and see what a party of this sort can be
like, we welcome you to come, observe, and mingle when you are ready.
We are coming in from out
of town and
would like to know if we are registered.
How far in advance
should we do so?
You should register as early as you can
If all available spaces have been filled, the reservation page will no
longer be available.
Is it
okay to cancel our reservation?
Yes, but please give us as much notice as possible so that we may include
another
couple in your place.
What
is the process for bringing a female guest to the party?
The female should make a reservation as a single online just as you need to
do. That
way, you will all be recognized in our computer system and we will
be able to invite
her to future parties.
What
is your definition of a "couple?"
The term "couple" does NOT have to mean married. A relationship that exists,
at
whatever level, is all that matters in our fairly loose definition. We
strongly suggest
that couples discuss what is and is not acceptable for you
and your relationship BEFORE
you come to the party. Many couples agree to
not do anything on their first visit, just
come and see what it is all
about. Come and try us out and see what transpires.
Are
there any age limitations at your parties?
You must be at least 21 years of age, with proof to be able to enter the
party. That
is the lower limit. The upper age limit? As long as you have a zest for life
feel comfortable with those in attendance we welcome you to come and enjoy!
I am
over 21, but my partner is underage. Can he or she still attend a party?
NO. All attendees must be of legal age to enter because liquor is served.
We need to follow NJ State laws as well as the rules of the local
establishment. Wait until your partner
is 21 and then come and
join us.
