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Swinger Terms and Definitions

Please note these are collective opinions of definitions we feel best suit the "status".  Everyone has their own interpretation of the  definitions of each so do not assume everyone is in agreement.  It is best to tread light until you have the opportunity to discuss specific topics. If you have suggestions for another topic or comments on the following, please contact us
 
 

 Full Swap

 

 Not Sure

 

Soft Swap

 

 Group Sex

 

 Bi-Sexual

 

 Internet Sex

 

 Soft Fetish

 

 Phone Sex

 

 BDSM

 

 Curious

 

 Fantasy / Role-play

 

 Voyeur Only

Full Swap

 

In most cases, Full Swap means a couple is willing to swap their partners for intercourse. They may choose to be in the same room with each other during this time, or in separate rooms.. They may or may not swing alone.
 
Soft Swap

 

Usually means the couple will engage in oral sexual pleasures but will NOT have intercourse with anyone other than their partner. In rare cases, this term defines promiscuous play without oral sex. Caressing, kissing and other forms of erotic foreplay is common.
 
Bi-Sexual These individuals enjoy sex with the same and opposite sex.
 
Soft Fetish

 

These couples are into Light bondage, leather, whips etc. Light pain. This category can be difficult to describe as each individual is different and Fetish ranges from Light to Extreme. Ask the individual exactly what he/she/they are into.
 
BDSM

 

Bondage, Discipline, Sadomasochism - The term "BDSM" encompasses a diverse range of sexual and sensual activities. It can include power/role playing, sensory games ranging from teasing to intense pain, and more.
 
Fantasy &
Role-play

 

Role-playing is the act of theatrical fantasy. Some individuals enjoy creating scenes and fantasies to fulfill. This type of swinging can be employed with other couples in a Full or Soft swing.
 
Group sex Normally means more than two couples. However, It can mean a couple and a single individual.
 
Internet Sex Fulfilling sexual desires either through a chat room, instant message or Live Web Cam.
 
Phone Sex Performing Sexual Intercourse via the telephone.
PLEASE be careful giving your phone number out to anyone.
 
Curious

 

Means the couple is interested in learning about the lifestyle. Normally they have never had a swing experience and is looking for the right couple to introduce them to the lifestyle. Can also apply to individuals seeking to explore part of their sexual desires, i.e. Bi-curious desires.
 
Not Sure

 

This category is for the individuals that have simply thought about what it may or may not be like.  They are in the discovering phase of the lifestyle. These individuals/couples are not curious yet.
 
Voyeur Only The individuals do not engage in swinging but enjoying the act of "watching" only.
 
 

 
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